Can you really plan ahead for future care giving?

Is it too late now if you are in the midst of care giving responsibilities?

Brain Plachta, an eldercare  lawyer, advises to draw up a care giving contract so everyone will know in advance what to expect.

Alicia Junghans, who cared for her own mom, has advice for people who are already care giving.

"Don't wait until you're overwhelmed to ask for help."

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