Losing the car is viewed as  the final end of independence to an aging senior.

It is the end of being able to get out and interact socially as well as being able to take care of one's own needs.

Taking your parent's car keys away is listed as one of the most traumatic experiences adult children can have as a  caregiver.

What are the warning signs that it's time?

1.Hearing Loss

Can your parent hear sirens, care horns?  Is your parent slow to respond to these driving warnings?

2. Vision Problems

If your aging parent can't see, he will have too many near misses on the road.   This is probably the most dangerous condition.

3. Drinking Problems

Alcohol can be abused at any age, but older drinkers can exceed safe limits very quickly and not realize it. In such situations  you must take the keys immediately.

Facing the decision to take your parents' car is painful for everyone involved.  If there are too many dents in the car that is a clear sign that your parent is driving badly.  It is also a clear warning that it's an issue which will only grow worse if neglected.

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